Ahhhhh!!!! Such a long time since my last post... Almost two years now. GOD!!!
Well but what can I say, Sometimes things just happen such that you just are unable to bring yourself to terms with "MOVING ON".
Some incidents in our lives leave us wretched and miserable to such an extent that coming back to our own self feels like an impossible task. The fears induced in our hearts run so deep that we forget that there is a life beyond those fears. Although it is a tough thing to overcome those fears it is not impossible to achieve it, if we BELIEVE!!
Life doesn't stop just because we decide not to move on.. Neither does time nor do the people who once were always around. There may be a few who would stay right where we left them and wait for us to take that first step towards a new life, but rest all disappear as if they never existed!
Through all this it always has to be our choice whether to move on or to be stuck in the time which has long passed on. To open our heart to the new feelings that knock on its doors or to just block them under the name of "PROTECTING OURSELVES"... To take the risks again or to just Stop Living..
Life is not fair, it never claimed to be!! But surely that’s not completely true. It’s unfair if we allow it to be so. It’s hard on us if we let it push us down. But if we really decide to fight back it’s not long before the tables are turned.
Letting someone help you, letting the heart to wander in the dreamland and to just take those risks that we so easily avoid is much more adventurous than living a life in solitude and sadness.
The pain, the emptiness caused because of those losses or traumas might not be completely filled, but making new places for others and living again might just ease out the pain.. After all as they say, "IT’S THE LAW OF LIFE THAT IN ORDER TO GAIN SOMETHING PRECIOUS ONE HAS TO GIVE UP SOMETHING MORE PRECIOUS."
It just takes a firm mind and a will to take the risks involved, to find what is in store, on the new path that life has taken.. Probably it might be the path that would help us value what we hold rather than what we don't and eventually lead us to the destination we always hoped for....
So here I am!!After a lot and lot of pressure, blackmailing and what not from those who stuck around by me in my journey.
Thanks to ALL OF THEM!!!!
And hopefully will be writing in regularly........ :) Ciao.
Well but what can I say, Sometimes things just happen such that you just are unable to bring yourself to terms with "MOVING ON".
Some incidents in our lives leave us wretched and miserable to such an extent that coming back to our own self feels like an impossible task. The fears induced in our hearts run so deep that we forget that there is a life beyond those fears. Although it is a tough thing to overcome those fears it is not impossible to achieve it, if we BELIEVE!!
Life doesn't stop just because we decide not to move on.. Neither does time nor do the people who once were always around. There may be a few who would stay right where we left them and wait for us to take that first step towards a new life, but rest all disappear as if they never existed!
Through all this it always has to be our choice whether to move on or to be stuck in the time which has long passed on. To open our heart to the new feelings that knock on its doors or to just block them under the name of "PROTECTING OURSELVES"... To take the risks again or to just Stop Living..
Life is not fair, it never claimed to be!! But surely that’s not completely true. It’s unfair if we allow it to be so. It’s hard on us if we let it push us down. But if we really decide to fight back it’s not long before the tables are turned.
Letting someone help you, letting the heart to wander in the dreamland and to just take those risks that we so easily avoid is much more adventurous than living a life in solitude and sadness.
The pain, the emptiness caused because of those losses or traumas might not be completely filled, but making new places for others and living again might just ease out the pain.. After all as they say, "IT’S THE LAW OF LIFE THAT IN ORDER TO GAIN SOMETHING PRECIOUS ONE HAS TO GIVE UP SOMETHING MORE PRECIOUS."
It just takes a firm mind and a will to take the risks involved, to find what is in store, on the new path that life has taken.. Probably it might be the path that would help us value what we hold rather than what we don't and eventually lead us to the destination we always hoped for....
So here I am!!After a lot and lot of pressure, blackmailing and what not from those who stuck around by me in my journey.
Thanks to ALL OF THEM!!!!
And hopefully will be writing in regularly........ :) Ciao.
hey there
ReplyDeleteNice readin ur stuff it has always been supper good.i lyk it but i think not always u have to give up ur precious stuff sometym u just have to get rid of the bad stuff from ur past..neways its good to see u hear n its always a pleasure to blackmail u...chairs
thanks... :)
ReplyDeleteWelcome back girlie :)
ReplyDeleteThats the spirit. Each day has its own fate so does bad days. They too won't stay for long. Have faith in yourself and walk along. All the best and take care!
Hope you will be regular on this space now :)
thanks Sh@s...
ReplyDeleteYa I will be regular around here now.. :)